Once upon a time...
There was this girl who was 12, and she liked to make up stories and play people who did things. One afternoon in spring, she was playing a man and his girlfriend. The man climbed an ornamental pear tree, grabbed this little blossom, and presented it to his girl with the big question. She said yes.
Sounds kind of crazy that the man would only give her this, but if you know anything about ornamental pear trees, possibly any pear tree, you would know about their sharp, poinky, stabbing little branches. They really poke and can beat up a fellow who climbs into them. That dude (the 12 year-old girl, playing by herself) definitely came down that tree with many scratches and pokes. I think the point of the story was that the many actually went through something difficult to bring cheer to his lady.
The little girl kept that blossom for many years. She always hoped she'd get a man like that. Someone who'd go through hard things for her. The man in the story could have gone to Wal-mart, picked out a beautiful bouquet, and presented that to his woman. Instead, he found a delicate little pear blossom that gave him trouble.
The 12 year-old has grown up. She doesn't usually play people anymore. However, she hasn't changed her mind. She didn't know exactly what kind of man she'd get, but she knew she didn't want a wimp.
She got her wish. She got an amazing man who cares for her more than anything and will go through difficult things for his lady. She's kind of blown away at how much he does for her.
I love you, Jacob.